I wonder the answer to this question. A part of me wants to say: Yes, of course. Mainly because I have plenty of guy friends with whom it’s just friendship. But another part of me is screaming: No! I find it that in some cases no matter how much you hang out with your friend it will always remain 'just friends'. Then there’s always that one exception to the rule where the more they hang out and do things together , feelings starts to develop whether they wanted it or not. Sometimes it just sneaks up on you and the next thing you realize is that your into your “friend”.
Some may disagree with me but does this situation become different when one of them is in a relationship already?
Say you’re the girl/boyfriend of the one with the ‘good friend’ of the opposite sex or same.
It’s not a matter of lack in trust in your significant other. But something, about their friendship just gets to you and you don’t want to complain because you clearly understand that their relationship as friends has been established before you came into the picture
It’s not a matter of lack in trust in your significant other. But something, about their friendship just gets to you and you don’t want to complain because you clearly understand that their relationship as friends has been established before you came into the picture
How should one approach this? When is hanging out too much? Do things change because you’re in a relationship?
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